One Korean romantic drama always present the difference between males and females clearly visible through short sentences. "Turn left turn right" is translated into Thai, “women turn left, men turn right.” Many people agree with their experience found by people around them including themselves. Many times, we talk about the same thing but we don’t understand about it. Although it ends with the departure, they also have to get back to talk to each other. What’s interest about these situations that why women and men have different ideas. Are there the solutions of this classic problem? Keeping the grievance first, then you try to read the next line. You may have the answer to myself.
According to a study by a team of researchers in the United States, surprising information was provided by Professor Regina. Regina Verma, the head of the research team, has confirmed that brain activity between men and women is surprisingly different. The female brain uses the Cerebrum brain, which deals with logical thinking and the Hypothalamus brain which is very emotional and creative by working together between the two hemispheres. While men use only one brain when solving problems. That is why women are more imaginative or far more than men that can understand and solve the problem in detail. While men will solve a simple problem and straightly. Working together or living together often leads to problems during gender. How can we solve this way out when we can’t change our brains?
1. Allocation of duties to suit the people
We have ever heard the phrase “put the right man on the right job.” Each gender has character by the working principle of the brain. If we can allocate work in accordance with this information, it can reduce the frustration at work or family quite a bit.
2. Honor each other
Sometimes, many decisions or actions may be unpleasant for you, but letting another one has her or his own space in the expression. It will help to reduce an argument.
3. Solving the problem together
Many times, a small matter becomes a big issue when no one accepts and helps to fix it. Although the work of both genders will have different strengths. Is it better? If both sides help in solving problems, the advantages of them must be benefit for the problem. To fix the problem, you need a straight solution and spot correction. It also needs to think about the details and the consequences that will follow after that. If you collaborate together, it will make the work or stories that is effectively managed by starting to understand the system of the brain itself.
If it begins like this, we believe that the next time when talking about women and men from “the turn left turn right.” it will become a “Together.”
Referrence: Time Magazine, March 28, 2006.
Cheewajit Magazine, December 2006 issue